You Fabulous You

Hello My Fabulous Friend.

Let’s talk about image. Specifically, your image and how we can boost it to one that looks effortlessly mesmerizing.  If you were anything like me before I jumped into my world of… Fabulous. You are probably very comfortable in your frumpy wear. If you’ve read my book, “You Fabulous Woman” then you have a good idea of what I am talking about. Remember, I wasn’t always seen as some to admire. I used to be a total frump. Enough about me, we don’t have much time to get you transformed. Here are some sassy tips to create a comfortable, yet striking image on casual days. I want to try to ease you into this so it’s as painless as possible. Ready? Ok, here goes.

Hair

A fabulous woman’s hair always looks like she just stepped out of a salon. However, I totally understand that bad days happen to spectacular people also, therefore on these days I will suggest a cute newsboy hat or something to that affect. Make sure that you have a few ringlets hanging down to add finishing touches.

Shirt

The best shirt to wear on casual days is a tunic or cotton T with embellishments to add a hint of flair. Add a long necklace that hangs down the shirt to dress it up a notch and you are all set.

Pants

I am a woman who loves her jeans. Jeans are acceptable even in the Fabulous World, but not just any pair of jeans. You want to find your perfect pair of jeans. These jeans should hug every curve of your body. If those jeans could talk, they should be saying… Yow!!!! When you do find the perfect pair, be sure to buy them in every color they have. You also want to buy a couple of pair of your favorite color. This way, you won’t be worried if the designer chooses to change styles on you or happens to retire. This has happened to me on a number of occassions.

Shoes

Now, let’s talk about my favorite piece… Fabuous shoes. Every woman should have a closet full of every color and style of shoe, in her size. You shouldn’t need to worry about which pair to wear because you have your own shoe store right in the comforts of your house. To me, the best shoes to wear with a perfect pair of jeans and cutest of cute shirt are heals with a pointed toe. Your shoes don’t have to match the outfit, but you may want them to match your purse and be sure to wear a color that absolutely… POPS like candy apple red.

Image also consists of how you carry yourself. To make it short, be sure to practice your walk regularly, always have great posture and lastly… Smile!

Stay Fabulous!

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Yesterday was my birthday and possibly one of the best birthday’s I’ve had. It wasn’t because I got lots of birthday presents or that I had a big birthday party. It was wonderful because on that day, I took time out to celebrate me. I celebrated the birth of … me and what a Fabulous thing that was.

I went to my favorite place on the beach to watch the glorious sun radiate against the ocean surface as I ate my favorite cheese cake. During that moment, I felt all the love that surrounded me from God; my family; my friends, and the love that I have for myself and others. Just allowing myself to be and feel loved is a feeling that can’t be explained in words.

While I sat in the sand, I had time to reflect on all the goals I’ve set for myself. During that time, something magical happened. I realized the one thing that has been holding me back from making my goals and dreams a reality. It’s a limiting belief that has always been right in front of me, but I never recognized it as having such a powerful control over me. This limiting belief encompasses my entire being. I have studied all the guides and tools to remove these beliefs. So, now I’m going to take action.

I am certain that being able to overcome this key element will be the very thing that makes me flourish in to the most Fabulous Woman that I can be and become the unstoppable being I set out to be.

I encourage you to pick your special day. Take a moment for yourself and see what magical things appear. You may learn something about yourself that will make you a better… You. That’s what You Fabulous You is all about.

Stay Fabulous!

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Hello, My Fabulous Ladies,

Have you seen the movie, “Thomas Crown Affair”? If so, then you remember how captivating Rene Russo was as Pierce Brosnan’s love interest. If I had to choose a spokeswoman for You Fabulous You, she would definitely be IT. The way Catherine Banning (Rene Russo) dressed, moved, and spoke in that film was the epitome of Fabulous.

Today, I want to talk about making a grand entrance. When I say, “make an entrance”, I am talking about walking into an event with the ability to make the entire crowd’s head turn to watch you sashay your fine self through the crowd to meet your inviter. Learning how to make a striking entrance might take practice, but it’s something that every Fabulous Woman should know how to do. And do it well. It might take practice, but the effects will be well worth it. Are you ready to learn the most prized skill that will have everyone asking, “Who is that Fabulous Woman”? Get your notepad and pencil out to write down these sassy tips.

Arrive Fashionably Late

Always plan to arrive at an event fashionably late. Being the first arrival at any gathering is simply… NOT Fabulous. To time your arrival just right, you’ll need to be aware of your culture. Being fashionably late depends on demographics. For instance, after living in California for a while, I’ve learned that entering a party 30 minutes to an hour late is perfect. However, in Washington State, where I lived previously, a late arrival of over 10 -15 minutes could be considered, rude. Therefore, analyze the event and your demographics to time your entrance, perfectly.

Walk Like a Panthress

As you enter an event, the thing that will make you stick out from everyone else is your walk. You might want to refer to Chatherine for a little help with this one. Your walk should be slow and sultry; looking effortless. Walk with one foot in front of the other (this makes your hips sway naturally) while you add a soft bounce. A little bounce should give your hair just enough movement to direct attention to your face, which should have a soft smile. Remember your posture by walking with confidence.

Be a Fashionista

Wearing the right cloths is of the utmost importance if you want to attract the type of attention that will get you noticed amongst hundreds (or thousands) of other people. I’d like to suggest that you wear something that hugs your every curve on that sensational body of yours. If there are some areas that you’d rather not accentuate; that’s ok. Find ways to cleverly cover those areas, while enhancing your best assets. Just try not to over do it. I’m sure you know what I mean

Finish With Perfection

Lastly, remember to keep your hair, nails, and skin looking there best. When you look and feel your best, your most ravishing side comes out, naturally. Be yourself, in spirit, and men will have no choice except to be magnetized by you.

Stay Fabulous!

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Now that you’ve learned my most fabulous technique to change your mood whenever you want. Next, I want to show you how to use your new, vivacious mood in a way that makes your hot honey follow your every sweet little command. Are you listening carefully? Come closer. This is my most secret tip of all and almost never fails. Ok, here goes.

One thing to remember is too add as much sugar to your chocolate (or vanilla) sweetie pie as you can. Men just love to be complimented. A man’s ego is boosted, to the max, when a woman compliments them on anything that he has already boasted about. Here’s an example. Let’s say you want your man to help you move the furniture because you want to change the design of the room. Try this… rub his biceps ever so gently, smile with your most sex appeal and say, “honey, I have a great idea for the room. Could you please help me move the furniture, when you have a minute? I would really appreciate it. I would do it myself, but if you helped me, I could be done in a fraction of the time because you are soooo strong.” Give his bicep another squeeze, then show a little love.

When you are ready, preferably after the game is off, ask for his help again with a wink. To really make him jump to help you, be sure time his favorite baked treat to finish around the time he’s done.  Just tell him that they should be ready when we are done moving the furniture.

Just by adding these simple, yet fun additions to the way you approach you man, a few things will happen here. You’ll increase the romance in your relationship by making his toes curl a bit with anticipation. He will enjoy his favorite treat and most of all, you got your furniture moved quickly. Now, you can move on to increasing the look of your already spectacular decor.

Stay Fabulous!

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Hello My Friend,
It seems as though I’ve been gone for quite a while, but I’ve been here. You may have noticed a few additions to my blog. I’ll be tweaking it here and there for a while. My intention is to make it feel cozy so we can feel comfy during our little chats. If you want to follow me more regularly, follow me on Twitter. That way, we can keep up on each other all day.

Today, I’m going to give you another one of my quick tips to change an unpleasant mood. There are many different books that show you how to create a state change. You are looking for a state change, which will help you to immediately change a rather unpleasant mood or when you are feeling your most un-fabulous. These days, you might feel depressed, sad, angry, or just want to lay around in your “frumpy wear” and mope around the house all day long.

Well, for you, that might seem like the best thing to do at the current time. However, to your hot honey, that attitude is nothing shy of being horrifically unattractive. There are many techniques and tools that will help you get “in the mood” and back to your old self again in no time. One technique I learned from an old coach of mine is to perform a bear grown when I’m feeling down. Here’s how you to do it.

1. Go to a room. (preferably where no one can hear you)
2. Make sure you have comfy cloths on.
3. Take a deep breath.
4. Now… Growl like a bear as loud as you can for as long as you can.
5. After you’ve done that, try to see if you can NOT laugh at yourself.
6. If you did it right, you will feel an quick change in the way you feel.

The bear growl has been effective for me in many ways. Try it. The next time you are in a “No-So- Fabulous” state, take a moment and growl! If you have to do it when your honey is at home, there’s no need to be shy. Just tell him to,“come yonder you big teddy bear.”

Stay Fabulous!

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